Quaggy, I truly did not mean to offend you. I probably could have use a better choice of words to get my point across. Trust me, I am not glib or callous about that dreadful day because I had a close cousin of mine who worked in the wing of the Pentagon that got hit that miraculously was not there because she was out at a meeting at Fort Meade that morning. She was like you defiantly making her way back to work on September 12th. I was in no way trying to degrade your experience because I have someone in my extended family who went through and is going through the very same thing you are. I'm very sorry if I cause you undue pain or brought back painful memories. I can assure you that I was not trying to do that with my post I was just trying to express my personal opinion which apparently I did a poor job of. Again, I'm very sorry.